Destination Wedding Invitations : Message in a Bottle
The Budget Savvy Bride

Right after we got engaged (or was it even before?) my fabulous future mother-in-law sent me the occasional destination-wedding idea. One idea was for destination wedding invitations… a message-in-a-bottle. That was an easy decision. YES. Within a month or two of saying “Yes” to the invitations, Brandon’s mom had found us a box of wine bottles that came with tops, from their local u-brew. So that was decided.

The box stayed in the corner of our “guest room” for over a year. (This was the start of the crazy stacks and stacks of boxes and bags and other wedding mess.)

Through sites like bestdestinationwedding.com, and just by doing some Google searching, I found many ideas of what other brides have done with message-in-a-bottle invitations.

I designed in the invitation itself in Word. I found an old map online of the Dominican Republic, and Brandon helped me fade it out in Word so it looked like a watermark under the typing. I then printed them off on paper (from Michaels, purchased during a sale) and burnt around the edges of each one using a candle.

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This was finicky, but I didn’t lose any… though one came pretty close. I made sure I had water nearby, just in case!

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In each bottle I put a little sand and some shells (also from Michaels, purchased with 40% off coupons, plus my teacher’s discount).

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The reply cards were a picture I found online taken at the resort. I distressed it, and printed on the back to make it look like a postcard, and typed “RSVP” on the front, all in Word. They were printed on some plain cream-coloured cardstock I had leftover from previous projects.

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It was tricky to roll up the thick cardstock and RSVP card (stamped, of course) together tight enough, but I did it. Next they were tied with raffia to keep them in place. Then with a bit of hemp attached to one of the raffia pieces, I attached “luggage tags” to each one, with that recipient’s name and address on one side, and our wedding date and website on the other. This is to help get the invitation out of the bottle.

Finally, I took some fishing net (again, Michaels with a 50% off coupon) and hung it over the mouth of the bottle. Then I hot glued a few shells to the net, and put the corks in.

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Oh yes, the corks. They came with the bottles, but were not regular corks; these ones were more plastic. They would not fit by hand, and we did not have a corker. So I patiently trimmed each cork down with a sharp knife. This was tedious and probably dangerous, but, clumsy though I am, I did not cut myself.

In the future I would have found someone – anyone – with a way to cork them. I probably could have taken them to a u-brew here, but whatever, it worked.

Okay, so now the invitations are set. But what to put them in? We ended up with a few variations of boxes for these invites, so not everyone got the same. Some people are getting them in the mail… plain shoeboxes covered in kraft paper with the bottles wrapped in bubble wrap and tissue.

Most people are getting shoeboxes that I spray-painted, then fit with a “beach tray” for the bottle. More on those in a minute.

A couple people – grandparents and wedding party members, namely, are getting “treasure chests” from Jysk (on sale) with the same “beach tray” in them.

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Finally, parents are getting large treasure chests (also on sale). I put a pillow in those ones I made myself to fit.

Making the "pillow" for the parents' treasure chests.

Making the “pillow” for the parents’ treasure chests.

Okay, the “beach trays”. This was actually Brandon’s idea. Wow.

I took a large piece of foam… the kind florists use. I got this one from Michaels. You guessed it… 50% off coupon. I then sawed (yes, sawed) it down into several pieces to fit cleanly inside the boxes. And I chiselled it out (well, I actually cut out most of it) with a knife to create a dip for the bottle to “rest” in.

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Next I sprayed the foam blocks with glue. Elmer’s works well for this. First you spray the part you want your actual sand on, then cover that, shake it off, then, once dry, do the same for the blue sand. I ended up painting part of the “ocean” look blue first, then covering it with the blue sand, to make that blue sand go further, since I did not have much.

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This was tricky to do well, since it was windy outside (which is where you should be doing this.) But then again, it is always windy here. I got it done, it wasn’t too stressful, and I am pleased with the way they turned out!

We were able to hand-deliver most of them, so we only have to mail a few, which is good, because I think that would be the most expensive part of the whole process.

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I love them! Would I do them for a large wedding? No way! But for our small destination wedding, I think they are perfect! Moreover, everyone we have given them to has raved about them. They are so surprised to open them, and most people do not believe we did it all ourselves.

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The cost, without postage, was $108.60.  That may not seem like a lot for invitations, but I only had to do, like, 30. It would get WAY out of hand cost-wise if you had to do more. They were a LOT of work, but I did not mind because I think the effect is TOTALLY worth it.

Now, I have seen similar invitations that people have purchased (and not including any nice wood treasure chests either!) that cost anywhere from $7 to $20 per invitation! Ours came in under $4 each (without the treasure chests).

I am DIYing invitations for our at-home reception too, and those will be simpler, since many more will be needed.

(As a sort of funny side note, we have noticed something when people open them… I think they think something will jump out at them! They open it up so carefully, and tend to stand back! It makes me wonder what on earth they are expecting?! Haha!)

So are you creating your own invitations? Would you consider something “out of the box” like I did?

Krysta is a 28-year-old teacher living in Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada. When she is not planning or marking essays and poetry, she loves reading, watching tv and movies, crafting, hanging out with her pets, and of course, her fiancé. She is planning a destination wedding for July 18, 2013 in the beautiful Dominican Republic.

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    • Lyssah
    • February 15th, 2013

    Krysta, these are amazing!!!! I mean, can I change to a destination wedding just so I can do them? JK-but in all honesty, amazing job! Probably the most beautiful handmade invites I have seen!

  1. I agree- these might be the COOLEST invites I’ve ever seen! Well done, Krysta!!

  2. Thank you ladies so much! I think your comments made my week! :) They were such a labour of love.

    • Renae
    • February 17th, 2013

    OMG! This is an amazing idea! While reading it, I was holding my breath afraid that you had to send out like 100! But sighed some relief when you said 30! I think the effect is definitely worth all the effort! Gorgeous!

    • hahahaha, yes, this definitely wouldn’t be cost-effective for a large guest list!! But such a great idea for an intimate wedding. :)

    • Denise
    • February 17th, 2013

    I’ve been trying to get that distressed look on paper & end up burning it and end up with serious ugly unevenness more often than not! What’s your strategy for getting them so evenly and beautifully done?

    Such lovely invitations!

  3. Denise, the secret is a whole lot of trial and error! What kind of candle are you using? A tea light in a holder I found works best (yes, it actually matters!) You can kind of see it in one of the top pictures.

    Make sure you hold the paper flat, and just on the edge touch it to the flame, and slowly move the edge of the paper along the edge of the flame (so you will actually have a whole part of an edge burning). Then blow it out immediately. Keep a damp cloth or paper towel (make sure it doesn’t dry out!) nearby; it is more effective at getting a flame out than blowing on it, if it starts to pick up strength. Whatever the flame touches will darken and maybe catch, so keep that in mind when distressing the edge.

    Also, a heavier paper or cardstock seems to work better than standard paper, though I have tried regular paper too; it is just more finicky.

    Good luck, Denise, and if you are still having trouble, let me know and I can maybe video one or something.

    • Nichole Zimmerman
    • April 13th, 2013

    Wow! This is very inspirational. I’d love to make this too for my very own wedding. =) message in a bottle invitations seem magical, don’t they? Thanks for sharing!
    God bless!

    • Nichole
    • May 6th, 2013

    This is a must-read post which i will recommend to my friends for ideas of invitations in a bottle. Keep posting more. =)

    • Jossie
    • February 17th, 2014

    Am having a un normal baby shower. Due to the fact we are unable to travel I will be taking a group of 25 to the spa a day to feel like a relax day at the beach and this idea is just perfect.