DIY: Asking the Girls

Its time for the first wedding project of many (maybe too many!).ย  I wanted a unique way to ask my best friends and family to stand next to me on one of the most important days of my life. I searched and searched for ideas, but nothing really stuck out to me that would still remain cost effective.ย  I could have called them up and asked, but I wanted to do something special (and crafty).ย  While at one of my favorite kitchen stores, I was browsing cookie cutters for the fall and football season when I discovered a wedding dress cookie cutter.ย  The ideas started flowing.
I would really like to know what I look like to an outside person when ideas start brewing in my head.
With the cookie cutter in my hand ($0.99), I had some cookies to make!
Supply List:
-Cookie Cutter of your choice
-Medium sized mailing boxes (found mine at craft store)
-Card stock of your choice (for the cards and if you want to change the box color)
-Plastic treat bags (craft store)
First, I baked and decorated my cookies to the colors of the wedding.ย  I found the recipe where else but at Martha Stewart.ย  See Lucky Lemon Cookie Recipe here.ย  I made a basic royal icing (simple: 1 egg white and 1 1/2 cup powdered sugar) which I colored as close to a navy blue as I could.
ย wedding dress cookie cutter
Not as Navy as I wanted, but they got the idea. Source: Personal Photo
While the cookies were doing their thing, I made my question cards and turned white boring boxes to navy blue using my tracing skills and blue card stock.
I formatted my question cards in Word and printed them on a more transparent piece of card stock.
wedding dress cookie cutter

Source: Personal Photo

After the cookies were done and the cards were ready, I packaged the cookies and sent them on their way.ย  The furthest they had to travel was Milwaukee and Chicago.ย  Everyone else was local
ย wedding dress cookie cutter
Source: Personal Photo
Then I waited.ย  And waited.
I hated the wait!ย  I wanted everyone’s answer THATVERYSECOND!
Honestly, I never knew this process would be so hard and stressful.ย  I really wanted EVERYONE to be up there with me.ย  In the end I chose my sister #1 (maid of honor), my best friend from college (maid of honor), my best friend from growing up, M’s sister, and my little sister #2.
Yes, I have two maids of honor.ย  Yes, I know that is not traditional.ย  This is the first of many things we are doing that is not traditional.

The total cost of this project was $30, or $6 for each box. This included:

Mailing envelope
Shipping costs
Cookie Cutter
Materials for cards and box covering

How did you ask your bridesmaids to stand with you?

Editor’s note: Due to the pandemic, some of the general wedding planning advice we share may not be applicable or possible due to restrictions on events. Please adhere to all current regulations and stay safe and healthy! Get more pandemic wedding resources here.ย 

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