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Well, we just passed the three-month mark in the great wedding countdown. Final projects are wrapping up, major changes are taking place, items are getting crossed off the to-do lists… So I thought this might be a great time to reorganize some of the giant “wedding mess” and take stock of what is what. And this led me to a realization: as careful with money as I generally am, I have been overspending on wedding items.

One of the first purchases I made was from a former destination bride. She posted a few items for sale on a forum I frequent ( I knew I wanted my maid of honour and bridesmaid to carry blue parasols, and I had been toying with the idea of having a white one for me. She was selling two blue parasols, and two white ones – one white one said “Just Married”, and the other said “Thank You”. She was also selling blue and white paper lanterns – another item I had been thinking about purchasing.

Well, I went ahead and purchased the parasols, and the lanterns. With shipping, it came to $90.  I thought the price seemed okay; plus, I felt like I was helping out a former bride. The items came, and I like them… But I don't really need them now. And certainly not for $90.

I will bring it to the Dominican. The white ones might be nice for pictures, but really unnecessary. And the blue ones… well, it turns out I will only have my maid of honour there with me. So I really did not need that second blue parasol. If I had shopped around more, I probably would have found 4 blue ones on ebay, and then given one to each mom. Now I am stuck with an extra blue parasol. I also thought about bringing it along for me to use, because I like it, but I also have these extra two white ones. I am trying to figure out what to do with them. Maybe leave the white ones here to decorate the hall for our at-home reception and just take the two blue ones…  I really do not know.

Maybe it will depend on how much room I have when packing! Here they are: Like I said, I like them… I just do not think they were worth the money. I have seen ones for $5 a piece since I bought them; about half-price of what I paid.

3050lightblue parasol just married
thank you parasol

Other things that I spent too much money on? Well, though they were not expensive, jewelry. I love jewelry and will wear it, but I bought some piece from etsy that I probably will not wear for the wedding. These I feel less guilty about, since, like I said, I WILL use them… But I am not sure I would have bought anything if I hadn't had the wedding in my mind. And even if it is a $5 pair of earrings that I thought I MIGHT wear to the wedding… well, if I do not, that was $5 I did not need to spend. So, it was wasteful. I also purchased outfits to wear for some “special” pictures I was going to take, and then give to my future hubby, for a wedding gift. Since plans changed, I was not able to use some of those items. I can repurpose them, yes, and they were cheap, but still unnecessary. Still wasteful.

This is why I made more comprehensive lists! So I would know what I do and do not need to buy, and so I can prioritize. I guess I just should have done it earlier.

Altogether, I have probably spent $100-$200 I did not need to.

Is there anything you wish you would not have bought, or wish you would have purchased more carefully? Is there anything you felt was a waste of money?


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About Krysta

Krysta is a 28-year-old teacher living in Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada. When she is not planning or marking essays and poetry, she loves reading, watching tv and movies, crafting, hanging out with her pets, and of course, her fiancé. She is planning a destination wedding for July 18, 2013 in the beautiful Dominican Republic.

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  • Terri

    A little advice on parasols: I also wanted to parasols that said Just Married and thank you, but I wasn’t too thrilled with the price tag. So I decided to buy a parasol and decorate it myself. I purchased a purple parasol from Hobby Lobby for $3.50. (It was originally $5 but I had a coupon.) I also bought two black sharpies for a $1 each at the dollar tree. Then I picked a font I liked in Microsoft word and printed out the words “Just Married.” After printing, I taped it to the back side of the parasol and traced it in pencil on the front. After tracing it, I colored in the letters with my the Black Sharpies. And Wallah – I had “Just Married” parasols for less than $10.00.

    As for your question, I also think I spent too much money on jewelry. While I loved my jewelry, I’ve never been a jewelry person so it likely wouldn’t be worn much again. I think I definitely should have spent less in the jewelry department.

    • Your idea for DIY “just married” parasols is genius! You should share a photo on the Facebook page! 🙂

      • Yes, Terri, that was actually my plan on the parasols, but then I bought them from the former bride instead; that is what she did with them. Apparently quite easy, and it does look great!

  • renae

    I’m trying to hold off on impulse buys. Reserving them for absolute/must have items. Last year, I thought I’d DIY chargers and added up how much it would cost to do so…Boy, am I glad I didn’t do that, because now that I’ve changed up a few details, I won’t even need them. As for jewelry, i’m going to wait closer to the day to get those, that way I won’t have buyer’s remorse.

  • Had I known that we would have a MUCH smaller guest count than originally anticipated (thought we’d have 85, ended up with 60), I would have held off before choosing vendors & buying supplies.

    We bought enough glasses, forks & spoons & knives, and plate chargers for 85. Also, I found out that our bakery would ONLY make a 3 tiered cake if we paid for 85 slices (and we REALLY want a 3 tier). Plus to kick it off, our food truck has 1 price point for 74 guests and under ($22 a head) and a 2nd price point for 75+ guests ($16 a head).

    Oh well, at least we know we won’t run out of food!

  • Lexi

    Eeek, I totally overspent on my wedding. I couldn’t resist going crazy over the invitation and the food that I went beyond my budget. It was a great event overall but if I could go back in time, I’d probably be more careful, hahaha!

  • Jacqueline

    It’s all part of living and learning, right? And things do change in ways we can’t anticipate. Don’t be too hard on yourself!

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