Upset Bride Posts Videos of Why She Excluded People From Child Free Wedding
When one bride decided to keep her wedding child-free, she faced a lot of backlash – even from members of her own family. To defend her decision, the upset bride posted videos online. Learn how it all unfolded.
A bride-to-be has sparked a heated debate with her bold decision to exclude sure guests from her child-free wedding. For the sake of her story, we’ll call her Jill.
The bride’s sister, we’ll call Tiffany, orchestrated a sophisticated and glamorous celebration at a wedding last summer. The nuptials were intended to be “child-free,” The bride kindly sent out gracious notes to guests who RSVPed with regrets, thanking them for respecting her wishes for the big day.
To accommodate those who were disappointed about not being able to attend the wedding, Tiffany even invited them to a separate gathering at her home later in the summer, where they could have a chance to see the wedding party in their finery and take pictures.
Unfortunately, some guests misunderstood the meaning of a “child-free wedding” and brought their children to the event anyway. The consequences were disruptive, with one child screaming throughout the ceremony.
Other parents had to share their food with their children due to a lack of space at the reception. However, the crowning moment was when a child who wanted a cupcake tipped over the wedding cake and ruined the presentation.
Jill’s Wedding Plans
As a result of these incidents, Jill and her fiancé decided not to invite these families to their wedding, which was fast approaching.
They created a Facebook group for the wedding to allow guests to share pictures and memories. Unfortunately, the non-invited families soon discovered this. They posted comments on Jill’s Facebook page, asking why they weren’t invited.
In response, she messaged them privately, asking them to remove their posts and explaining the smaller guest list for her wedding.
The families went public with their complaints, and Jill felt compelled to share evidence of the disruptive behavior at her sister’s wedding, including a video of a crying child and a picture of the ruined wedding cake.
It caused a stir, with the families calling Jill a jerk for embarrassing them for having children and wanting to participate in family events. However, Jill stood by her decision, saying they did not understand the reason for having rules in place, which was why they didn’t receive wedding invitations.
Eventually, the uncle of one of the families offered to pay for the damaged cake, expressing embarrassment that his daughter was among the entitled individuals who misbehaved at the sister’s wedding. Unfortunately, he had not been able to attend nor heard of the mishap. Woo. There’s a lot to unpack there. Here is how the internet responded.
You Met Them Where They Were
One Redditor stated, “They tried to call you out publicly for deciding on YOUR wedding, and you just met them where they were. They sound horrible. No wonder you don’t want them at your wedding.”
Guilt Tripped Consequences
“My husband and I wanted a child-free wedding but got guilt-tripped into allowing kids,” confessed one. “There were cute moments, but I wish there’d been no kids. Instead, they screamed during the ceremony (I had to stop my wedding because a toddler screamed, “No, no, no!” while her dad ignored her).
They broke the glass table decorations. They smeared chocolate on my husband’s vest. They ran around underfoot. I’m convinced I didn’t lose it because my bridal party made a deal to keep the kids away from me.”
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“My family is Catholic, so kids were a must cause my cousins to have so many. I will say, though, the kids were well-behaved because they were used to going to church. And we had babysitters for cocktail hour and the dancing afterward.
If you have to have kids, get babysitters and stick them in the bridal suite. But make sure you find a good place to stash your stuff.” Several others noted that child-free means child-free, so there shouldn’t be a need to stash kids.
What do you think? Did this Reddit bride have the right to post those embarrassing videos of her family’s kids ruining her sister’s wedding as evidence of why they weren’t invited to hers? Or did she cross a line? This article was inspired by the internet and does not necessarily reflect the views of The Budget Savvy Bride.