One of our most popular (and most commented on) posts is about a free wedding dress that was given away by one of our readers in 2011.
Brides from all over the country leave comments on this post regularly looking for free wedding dresses because they are burdened by financial hardships and are unable to afford their own wedding dress.
Unfortunately that particular wedding dress is spoken for and was given away long ago, but I thought it was a good idea to share some resources for current or future brides who are looking for ways to score a free wedding dress.
If you want a free dress, keep these things in mind:
- Selection will be limited. Finding free wedding dresses isn't an easy thing, but it can be done! Be prepared to spend extra time, and know that you won't have many options to choose from.
- Lower your expectations. It's definitely possible to find a free wedding dress but it's much less likely that it will be the designer gown you've always dreamed of.
- You will probably need to pay to get it altered. If you are able to get a wedding dress for free, you'll likely need alterations to make sure the dress is a good fit.
With that being said, it IS possible but it can be a tough! Think you're up for the challenge of finding a free wedding dress? Here are 5 avenues to explore and some challenges you might face:
1. Borrow your Wedding Dress from a friend or family member
I would say that the easiest way to get a wedding dress for free is to borrow a dress that belongs to a friend or family member.
It never hurts to ask those close to you, especially if you're in a financial bind. You might get lucky and have someone willing to share their special dress with you!
Potential Challenges: Finding a friend with a dress in a style and size that also works for you could be difficult. If you're just borrowing the dress, you more than likely won't be allowed to alter it if the lender wants the dress back after your big day. Be sure to clarify those expectations upfront to avoid any issues!
2. Trade or Barter to get a Free Wedding Dress
Do you have a skill or trade or expertise to share in exchange for a wedding dress? It never hurts to ask your local bridal shop if there is anything you can do to get your wedding dress for free.
Whatever your talents are, try to use them to your advantage. Maybe you can offer them a service such as accounting or marketing or graphic design in exchange for a wedding dress.
And if you don't have a professional skill to trade, perhaps they need some extra help in their shop during their busy season or a babysitter for their kids.
Potential Challenges: A bridal shop might not be interested in bartering. Check out sites online where people are selling their used wedding dresses and consider offering them a barter as well!
3. Search for Free Wedding Dresses Online
You can also check out your local newspaper classifieds and other such classified sites on the web.
Potential Challenges: You might end up finding a free wedding dress online, but more than likely it will need to be altered and/or professional cleaning prior to you being able to use it. Keep these expenses in mind when considering your options.
4. Enter Contests to Win a Free Wedding Dress
This isn't a guaranteed way to get your wedding dress for free, but it never hurts to try!
Many wedding retailers, local wedding vendors, big brands and wedding websites will occasionally host wedding contests or sweepstakes for wedding items including wedding dresses.
Sign up for email lists with the bridal shops in your area, enter contests online, do Google searches for free wedding dress contests.
Potential Challenges: It's not a guarantee, so don't rely on this method. But it couldn't hurt to enter as many contests as you can while exploring your other options.
5. Free Wedding Dresses for Military Wives
Did you know that military brides can get get a free wedding dress through the Brides Across America program? Brides have to qualify in order to be eligible – the bride or the groom must have been deployed within the last five years or have an upcoming deployment.
Bridal shops all across the US host events each year where military brides can pick out a free wedding gown. You can see a list of upcoming Brides Across America events here.
Potential Challenges: Each salon has a different number of gowns and sizes available to give away. Prior to the events, BAA provides each salon with a complete list of the attending brides and their sizes to make sure that a good selection is available. Most gowns require alterations and any associated costs are the bride's responsibility.
Have you found a free wedding dress to use for your wedding? How did you do it?
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Editor's note: Due to the pandemic, some of the general wedding planning advice we share may not be applicable or possible due to restrictions on events. Please adhere to all current regulations and stay safe and healthy! Get more resources for planning a pandemic wedding here.