Identify your wedding vision, priorities, and budget with this interactive game!
This simple question game can help you when it comes to planning the various aspects of your wedding day. Planning a wedding can definitely feel like a big undertaking because there are so many decisions to be made.
Whether you're just engaged or have been rocking your bling for a bit, it can feel overwhelming to get started making plans. So we decided to create a helpful and fun way to sit down with your spouse-to-be to discuss and define what you want your wedding day to be.
We call it The 20 Questions of Wedding Planning!
If you're looking for wedding planning tools, this one couldn't be simpler, and it's free! We created the 20 Questions of Wedding Planning to help couples with those pesky questions related to planning the details of their big day.
This fun, interactive question game will spark conversations about all the different aspects of a wedding day to help couples hone in on their tastes, vision, and style.
The 20 Questions of Wedding Planning is a series of question cards and worksheets that you and your fiancé should each fill out. Once you've answered all the questions and filled out your worksheets, you can compare and contrast your responses to help reach the perfect compromise for your wedding plans!
There are four different categories of questions that span across every aspect of your big day.
These questions will help you get an idea of where you stand with your wedding budget. This includes how much you're willing to spend and how much you're able to spend. It will also take into account how much your families will be contributing or if you have other monetary priorities.
These questions will help you get an idea of things you may want to include in your big day. These questions cover the logistics, details, and more to help you plan the nitty-gritty of the wedding.
These questions will help you identify some of the personal choices involved in the big day. Everything from the type of foods you love to eat, your hobbies, and more – so you can incorporate your interests into your wedding details. These questions will help you plan a wedding day that uniquely reflects you as a couple.
These questions will help you identify some of the personal style and aesthetic choices of your big day. This category is definitely about the look and feel of your wedding day – from the fashion to the florals!
Complete the 20 questions and fill out your respective worksheets. Once you're done, compare and contrast your responses with those of your fiancé. See where your ideas align or where they differ. Planning a wedding can be a great test in compromise– something you'll have to do plenty of in your marriage. See where your wedding day priorities match up or where they are different. This will steer your decisions on where to place the focus of your budget or efforts. Perhaps you'll decide to host your wedding at a place that holds significance in your relationship. Or maybe you'll serve donuts for dessert because that's what you were eating the first time you exchanged “I love you's.”
The best weddings are the ones that truly reflect the love story and the personal tastes of the two people getting married. This set of 20 questions will help identify the ways to make your wedding uniquely you!
Want to take the 20 Questions of Wedding Planning quiz for yourself? Download the files below!
Just print the files using your home printer and cut out the cards to play the game. I hope you enjoy this fun and clever wedding planning exercise!
20 Questions of Wedding Planning
(conversation cards & worksheets)
Editor's note: Due to the pandemic, some of the general wedding planning advice we share may not be applicable or possible due to restrictions on events. Please adhere to all current regulations and stay safe and healthy! Get more resources for planning a pandemic wedding here.