If you’re in the beginning stages of wedding planning, it may seem as if there are only two options to get married – going to the courthouse or hosting a large wedding. However, eloping and creating your own kind of wedding day is beginning to catch on! There’s more reasons to opt for an elopement than simply saving money or being able to get married quickly. Nowadays, adventure elopements are more about creating an authentic experience with less stress and pressure than a traditional wedding. Read on for all the reasons why planning an adventure elopement is awesome!
Why you should consider an adventure elopement:
1. Your wedding day should be about you
Traditional weddings aren’t always tailored to the couple getting married. When planning a large wedding, you tend to keep in mind how to entertain 100+ guests, when to fit in family photos, or what could happen if you provide alcohol, among the many other details.
Adventure elopements are different. They take out the superficial fluff surrounding weddings and make it solely about your commitment to each other.
2. Elopements are intimate and meaningful
Rather than be overwhelmed with the number of guests you’re supposed to greet at a traditional wedding, eloping allows you to intentionally choose who you’ll be spending your day with and how much of it you’d like to share with your guests. No more meeting strangers on the day of your wedding!
3. Create a unique experience
Maybe a large wedding and partying into the night isn’t your thing, but what about a first dance on a mountain top or with your toes in the sand? A hot air balloon grand exit? The only limit is your imagination, so do whatever makes you feel most alive and create an elopement experience that is authentic and uniquely yours.
4. You value experiences over stuff
According to The Knot’s survey the average cost of a wedding in the U.S. is $38,931. That’s an astronomical amount to spend on monogrammed napkins, china plates, and floral arrangements. Elopements allow you to save money on the material things that don’t matter to you and splurge on what does. It’s all about priorities.
5. Less guest list drama
Narrowing down your guest list to fit within a venue’s capacity, or simply for your own sanity, is DIFFICULT. Trust me, I had to do this for my own wedding to meet my venue’s fire code requirements. It’s tough, and your parents will insist on inviting relatives you haven’t heard of and their old-time friends. Nix this dilemma entirely by only including immediate family or no one at all!
6. Location, location, location!
With a limited guest list, you have the world to choose from as far as elopement locations go. Choose from your favorite national parks, the top of a local hike, or your dream vacation.
Take advantage of your elopement’s flexibility and take portraits at sunrise or sunset to create the most beautiful photos during golden hour. You’ll receive jaw-dropping, gorgeous shots and create beautiful memories.
7. Less stress and planning
Let’s face it, no one wants to spend their free time planning a $30,000 event. If you loved doing that, you’d have gone into event planning already. A smaller event means less to coordinate, less stress time tracking down vendors, and less that could go wrong.
There also won’t be anyone expecting you to wow them with the most up-to-date wedding trends, dessert tables, or the city’s biggest party DJ. You do you. No pressure to cater to the expectations of others.
8. Create memories
You’ll hear it from family, friends, and vendors alike – your wedding day will fly by and you’ll have a hard time remembering what happened. It’s true, but eloping allows you time to get ready slowly, enjoy a walk to your ceremony location, and gives you more intentional time with those you love most. No rushing involved.
9. No stage fright
Eloping means you don’t have to share one of the most intimate moments of your life with a crowd of a hundred onlookers. You’ll both be able to cry freely, show emotions, and there won’t be any freezing up while you walk down the aisle because EVERYONE is staring at you.
10. No need to wait
If you’d rather not wait another single moment to get married, beautiful elopements can be planned much faster than a large wedding. Ideally, give yourself a month to get details squared away, or six to 18 months to plan in a more relaxed manner.
11. Start life together with an adventure
There is no better way to start life together than with an epic adventure! Your wedding day should be something to look back upon and remember with awe, inspiration, and gratitude.
So what do you think of adventure elopements?
Would you consider running away somewhere fabulous to say “I do?”
Editor’s note: Due to the pandemic, some of the general wedding planning advice we share may not be applicable or possible due to restrictions on events. Please adhere to all current regulations and stay safe and healthy! Get more pandemic wedding resources here.